Movie Clip Discussions

Matrix, The (Choices)

Dynamic ImageMain Point: People must choose God’s truth which is sometimes hidden by the pleasures or pains of daily life.

Before the Meeting:
Gather two separate types of candy of contrasting color (for example, try Red Hots and Lemon Drops or small pieces of red licorice and black licorice). As students enter, offer them a piece of candy. You are not making a major point, just grabbing attention.

Attention Grabber:
Welcome! Thanks for coming tonight. You want a piece of candy? You have to choose which one you want. Go ahead, take one flavor and then grab a seat.

Transition into Movie Clip:
Tonight we’re going to look at a clip from the movie The Matrix. The movie’s rated R because it’s pretty violent but the clip we’re watching is clean. It’s about a choice that Neo, played by Keanu Reeves, must make. It might help you to know that the movie takes place in the future when computers have taken over the world and control humans. The Matrix is reality, but humans don’t even know about it. They are living in a kind of dream state where everything feels great, but it’s not reality. Neo knows that something is not right and he is searching for truth. Read the subtitles and pay close attention to how Morpheus, played by Laurence Fishburne, describes the Matrix. I’ll show part of the clip and then we’ll discuss it and then I will show the rest of the clip before we break into groups.

Show Clip:
Scene 8, set your counter to 25:10. The scene begins with Trinity ushering Neo into the office of Morpheus. You will end the clip at 29:48. (NOTE: Be prepared to PAUSE the clip after Morpheus’ first speech. He ends with the question to Neo, “Do you know what I am talking about?”)

Key Dialogue:

    Morpheus: Do you believe in fate, Neo?

    Neo: No

    Morpheus: Why not?

    Neo: Because I don’t like the idea I’m not in control of my own life.

    Morpheus: I know exactly what you mean. Let me tell you why you are here. You are here because you know something. What you know can’t be explained, but you feel it. You felt it your entire life. Something is wrong with the world. You don’t know what it is but it’s there; like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me. Do you know what I am talking about?


Transition Statement:
Morpheus is talking about the Matrix in this science fiction movie, but it sounds like he is talking about something supernatural or spiritual; a feeling he thinks Neo has.

Optional Large Group Discussion Questions:

  1. Give an example of when you have FELT something but it’s been hard to explain with words.
  2. When you think of life with Jesus, is your experience something you feel? What does it feel like?
  3. Can you describe a time when God has used feelings to draw you toward Jesus?
  4. Neo feels something is wrong with the world. In real life a lot of people feel that same way. In the clip, Neo’s feeling drew him toward Morpheus for answers.
    A.) What do people feel is wrong with the world today?
    B.) How does God use those feelings to draw people toward Jesus?
  5. We’ll watch the rest of the clip and then discuss Neo’s choice in our small groups.

    Neo: (answering Morpheus’ question) The Matrix

    Morpheus: Do you want to know what it is? The Matrix is everywhere; it’s all around us, even now, in this very room. You can see it. When you look out your window or when you turn on your television. You can feel it; when you go to work, when you go to church, when you pay your taxes. IT IS THE WORLD THAT HAS BEEN PULLED OVER YOUR EYES TO BLIND YOU FROM THE TRUTH.

    Neo: What truth?

    Morpheus: You are a slave Neo; like everyone else. You were born into bondage, into a prison that you can not smell or taste or touch; a prison for your mind. No one can be told what the Matrix is; you have to see it for yourself. This is your last chance. After this there is no turning back. You take the blue pill and the story ends. You will wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want. You take the red pill and you stay in “Wonderland” and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes. (Neo takes the red pill.) Remember, all I am offering is the truth.


Transition into Small Groups:
Neo made an important choice and took the red pill. We’ll talk more about that choice as we meet in small groups. Let’s break up now.

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Small Group Questions:
Morpheus explains to Neo that the Matrix is everywhere; out the window, in the room, at work.

  1. ASK A FEW:How is the truth of God like the Matrix that Morpheus describes?
  2. ASK A FEW:Do people pay attention to God’s truth or do they ignore it? What makes you think that?
  3. ASK A FEW:Tell us about a time when you chose to ignore God or His directions to you or His love for you. Why did you ignore Him? How did you feel?
  4. ASK A FEW:Tell about a time when you have searched for God’s truth, like Neo searched for the Matrix. What was that like for you?
  5. There is a passage in the Bible where Paul talks about a bunch of people who think they are really smart. They believe that they understand the universe and have created a bunch of symbols to worship which represent all the great aspects of life. Although they know God’s truth, they choose another life style.

  6. ASK SOMEONE: Would you read Romans 1:18-25?

      Romans 1:18-25 (NLT)
      But God shows his anger from heaven against all sinful, wicked people who push the truth away from themselves. [19] For the truth about God is known to them instinctively. God has put this knowledge in their hearts. [20] From the time the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky and all that God made. They can clearly see his invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse whatsoever for not knowing God.
      [21] Yes, they knew God, but they wouldn't worship him as God or even give him thanks. And they began to think up foolish ideas of what God was like. The result was that their minds became dark and confused. [22] Claiming to be wise, they became utter fools instead. [23] And instead of worshiping the glorious, ever-living God, they worshiped idols made to look like mere people, or birds and animals and snakes.
      [24] So God let them go ahead and do whatever shameful things their hearts desired. As a result, they did vile and degrading things with each other's bodies. [25] Instead of believing what they knew was the truth about God, they deliberately chose to believe lies. So they worshiped the things God made but not the Creator himself, who is to be praised forever. Amen.

  7. ASK A FEW: What does this passage tell us about choosing truth? What happens if we don’t?
  8. ASK SOMEONE: What do verses 20 and 21 tell us about God’s truth?
  9. Morpheus told Neo that the world had been pulled over his eyes, like a blinder blocking out the truth. It seems like that happened back in Paul’s day too. People got distracted by the pleasures of life and forgot to look for the truth, Jesus, even though they knew Him.

  10. AROUND THE CIRCLE: Name one pleasure in the world that might blind you from God’s truth. How does it blind you? (Leader should begin with a personal example like, “Sometimes I get really focused on work and I forget that God gave me this job for a reason…”)
  11. ASK A FEW: How can we choose Jesus when we are stuck in this world filled with opportunities to have fun, make money, and experience pleasure? What can we do to keep choosing the truth?
  12. ASK SOMEONE: WHY would we choose Jesus above all of those other options?

Wrap Up:
Neo had a choice. Take the blue pill and he goes back to the pretend world where he won't know any different. Take the red pill; he will find out the truth (no matter how uncomfortable it might be!). We face the same kind of choice every moment of every day. We either seek out God and the true life He has planned for us or we ignore the truth. Maybe we choose our sports, or our families. Sometimes people even choose to ACT like Christians without really KNOWING Jesus intimately and trusting Him with life. That is not truth. We have to be willing to search like Neo did. Ask questions when we don’t understand; seek leadership when we doubt; find fellowship with other believers when we feel lost. Paul tells us in this passage that if we continue to serve created things rather than the Creator, the Creator will turn us over to our own desires.

I gave you a choice when you first walked in tonight. It wasn’t a big deal—just what kind of candy to choose. As you leave tonight I want you to think about the BIG choices you have to make; the ones that really matter. I challenge you to choose the truth. Let’s pray.

Idea by Steve Hayes
Written by Teddi Pettee


Jonathan McKee

Jonathan McKee is the author of over twenty books including the brand new The Guy's Guide to FOUR BATTLES Every Young Man Must Face; The Teen’s Guide to Social Media & Mobile Devices; If I Had a Parenting Do Over; and the Amazon Best Seller - The Guy's Guide to God, Girls and the Phone in Your Pocket. He speaks to parents and leaders worldwide, all while providing free resources for youth workers on Jonathan, his wife Lori, and their three kids live in California.


  1. Rod
    January 31, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Classic clip that never gets old. Thanks for the discussion points!

  2. hendra
    March 23, 2011 at 12:00 am

    love this clip discussion

  3. jrbeers717
    March 26, 2011 at 12:00 am

    Our group had a great discussion based on this clip. Thanks!

  4. Craig Huffhines
    September 10, 2012 at 12:00 am

    Great Analogy for Godly Truth versus Worldly lies.

  5. Craig Huffhines
    September 10, 2012 at 12:00 am
  6. Pastor Joe
    October 8, 2013 at 12:00 am

    Amazing! Looking for a Bible Study series that is engaging, relevant and appealing. This is it. Thanks a million. Excellent job!!!

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