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Jerry Maguire

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Rated R, 1997, TriStar

Main Point: We must follow Christ, even when we're the only ones.

Attention Grabber: Movie – Jerry Maguire

This is a fantastic movie with Tom Cruise about Jerry Maguire, a sports agent (Cruise), who in the beginning of the movie discovers the immorality in his job. He ends up losing his job and tries to survive as an honest agent with the help of a very loyal colleague. Unfortunately, there are two sexual situations (one of which has some nudity), which ruins the idea of watching the movie with the family. But skipping over those two parts, this movie is an amazing story about honesty, relationships, and being real. If I had teenage children, I'd allow them to watch the movie with me, as long as I knew when and where to skip the bad parts.

Clip: Who's coming with me?
This clip begins with Jerry Maguire leaving his office just after being fired. He has a new change of heart and wants to be completely ethical in his business, and is now pleading for any other ethical person to leave the company and come work with him. At the end of the scene, just when it looks as if no one will go with Jerry, Dorothy from accounting stands up and says “I will go with you.” While all eyes are on her, and everyone else stays, Dorothy leaves her well-paid job behind. The scene begins at 29:25 on the DVD (the beginning of chapter 13) or if you begin the counter on the VCR at the FBI warning, and ends at 33:03, right after Jerry and Dorothy exit the building.

Clip Introduction:
We're going to watch a scene from Jerry Maguire. In this movie, Tom Cruise is a great sports agent who has made his way to the top by lying and manipulating athletes. But now he wants to do what is right and be honest, and he has lost his job for it. This is the scene where Jerry Maguire is leaving the office, asking anyone to stand alongside him in following what's right. Anyone who goes with Jerry will be doing the right thing, but will lose their job and even their friends from work. Let's see what happens.

    Scene Script:
    (JERRY exits his office into main work area. Employees begin to pause and watch what he will do.)

    JERRY: Well, don't worry. I'm not going to do what you all think I'm going to do, which is flip out! Let me just say as I ease out of the office I helped build. I'm sorry, but it's a fact that there's such a thing as manners–a way of treating people. These fish have manners. These fish have manners. In fact, I'm starting a company and the fish will come with me. You can call me sentimental; the fish are coming with me.

    (He walks to the fish tank and captures one in a Ziploc bag.)

    Okay, if anybody else wants to come with me, this moment will be the moment of something real and fun and inspiring in this God-forsaken business and we will do it together. Who's coming with me? Who's coming with me? Who's coming with me? Who's coming with me besides—(looks at fish)—Flipper here? (Nobody volunteers.) This is embarrassing. (Picks up his bags.) Alright. Wendy? Shall we?

    WENDY: Oh, Jer, you know, I'm three months away from the pay increase.

    JERRY: Okay, okay. (Begins to exit.)

    DOROTHY: (Stands up.) I will go with you.

    JERRY: (smiling) Dorothy Boyd, thank you. (JERRY begins to exit.)

    DOROTHY: (whispering) Right now?

    (JERRY nods. DOROTHY gathers her things and they join each other in the middle of the room.)

    JERRY: (holding up fish) We'll see you all again. Sleep tight. (They exit.)

Transitional Statement:
In the scene, Dorothy decided that it was better to do what's right, even when she knows it will cost her a job and even her friends. This is no easy decision. Sometimes it feels like doing what is right can feel like we're standing out in a crowd. Right now we're going to split up into our small groups and discuss the idea of doing what's right and even what the cost sometimes is.

Divide into Small Groups:
Let’s go ahead and split up into our discussion groups, and then afterward we’ll come back together for a final word.

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Discussion Questions:

  1. AROUND THE CIRCLE: Just for fun, if you had to be a ball used in sports, what would you want to be and why?
  2. ASK A FEW: Was there ever a time in your life when you were the only one willing to do what was right? Tell us about it.
  3. ASK THE SAME FEW: What was the result of your decision? Did people laugh at you or follow you? Did you stand out?
  4. ASK A FEW: Why is it that it is so difficult sometimes to do what's right? Why are we so easily influenced by the people around us?
  5. ASK A FEW: In the film clip, how did you feel when Dorothy stood up and decided to join Jerry in leaving the company?
  6. ASK A FEW: Why do you think it's powerful when someone is willing to take the risk to do what's right? What makes it “inspirational”?

    • Mark 10:28-30
      Peter said to him, “We have left everything to follow you!”
      “I tell you the truth,” Jesus replied, “no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age (homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields–and with them, persecutions) and in the age to come, eternal life.”

  7. ASK A FEW: In this passage, Jesus says that He wants Christians to be willing to leave anything behind in order to follow Him. Do you think that's harsh?
  8. ASK A FEW: Why do you think a lot of Christians aren't willing to leave everything behind to follow Christ completely?
  9. ASK A FEW: At your school or when you're with your friends or family, are you ever in situations when you know that doing the right thing would make you stand out? How do you normally respond?
  10. ASK A FEW: If we were with Christ at that moment, what do you think His instruction to us would be?
  11. AROUND THE CIRCLE: Are you willing to do what's right, even if that means standing out in the crowd?
  12. AROUND THE CIRCLE: When you are confronted with these situations this week, what are you going to do in order to follow Christ?

Dorothy saw that there was a decision to be made: She could either do what's right and leave behind a nice paycheck and some good friends from work, or she could choose to not embarrass herself and remain comfortable but working for a dishonest company. None of us in here would argue that it took guts and a lot of courage for her to stand up and leave it all behind. It's difficult when people are watching. Some of us might get teased or laughed at if we stand out in the crowd for doing something that’s right. It's not an easy thing. But Christ has told us that we should be willing to follow Him no matter what. In fact, He says even if it means hurting a relationship with a family member. Christ calls us to be obedient at all times, no matter what the crowd is doing or who is watching. Before we go tonight, let's get in groups of three, tell about what we're going to do differently this week to obey Christ, and then pray for each other.

Written by Matt Furby


Jonathan McKee

Jonathan McKee is the author of over twenty books including the brand new The Guy's Guide to FOUR BATTLES Every Young Man Must Face; The Teen’s Guide to Social Media & Mobile Devices; If I Had a Parenting Do Over; and the Amazon Best Seller - The Guy's Guide to God, Girls and the Phone in Your Pocket. He speaks to parents and leaders worldwide, all while providing free resources for youth workers on Jonathan, his wife Lori, and their three kids live in California.


  1. Rod
    January 31, 2011 at 12:00 am

    One of my favorite movies ever. Now i have a great way to use some of the good things in it with my group. Thanks for a great resource

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