Main Point of Discussion:
In a world seeking happiness through temporary thrills… God offers something much better, living life to the fullest now through eternity!
Introducing The Song:
It’s been just a year since Bruno Mars released his hit song Uptown Funk, and he has followed up with the smash hit 24K Magic. This new party anthem is #6 on the Billboard Hot 100, and the music video (to date) has racked up more than 60 million views on YouTube.
Mars explains why he chose to launch this new song with a music video:
- “You want to kick the door down instead of politely say, ‘Hey guys, check this out.’ So I think that was the whole objective — to make sure the visual came with the song so people can know, ‘When we wrote this, this is what we felt like.’ When I’m performing, this is what I want you to feel like. Hopefully everyone’s partying with us.”
24K Magic is essentially an invitation to party with Bruno and his group, and it is an obvious glorification of a “live for the moment” lifestyle.
The Music Video:
WARNING: Since the video for 24K Magic is replete with inappropriately dressed females and other images that you may not want your students exposed to, you may opt to use JUST THE LYRICS to launch this discussion. So even though many of your students have already seen the video, this music discussion does not make any references to it.
The music video can be viewed for free at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqyT8IEBkvY
Song Lyrics:
Tonight
I just want to take you higher
Throw your hands up in the sky
Let’s set this party off right
Players, put yo’ pinky rings up to the moon
Girls, what y’all trying to do?
24 karat magic in the air
Head to toe so player
Uh, look out!
Pop pop, it’s show time (Show time)
Show time (Show time)
Guess who’s back again?
Oh they don’t know? (Go on tell ’em)
Oh they don’t know? (Go on tell ’em)
I bet they know soon as we walk in (Showin’ up)
Wearing Cuban links (ya)
Designer minks (ya)
Inglewood’s finest shoes (Whoop, whoop)
Don’t look too hard
Might hurt ya’self
Known to give the color red the blues
Ooh s#^t, I’m a dangerous man with some money in my pocket
(Keep up)
So many pretty girls around me and they waking up the rocket
(Keep up)
Why you mad? Fix ya face
Ain’t my fault y’all be jocking
(Keep up)
Players only, come on
Put your pinky rings up to the moon
Girls, what y’all trying to do?
24 karat magic in the air
Head to toe so player
Uh, look out!
Second verse for the hustlas (hustlas)
Gangstas (gangstas)
Bad bitches and ya ugly ass friends (Haha)
Can I preach? (Uh oh) Can I preach? (Uh oh)
I gotta show ’em how a pimp get it in
First, take your sip (sip), do your dip (dip)
Spend your money like money ain’t s#^t(Whoop, whoop)
We too fresh
Got to blame it on Jesus
Hashtag blessed
They ain’t ready for me
I’m a dangerous man with some money in my pocket
(Keep up)
So many pretty girls around me and they waking up the rocket
(Keep up)
Why you mad? Fix ya face
Ain’t my fault y’all be jocking
(Keep up)
Players only, come on
Put your pinky rings up to the moon
Hey girls
What y’all trying to do?
24 karat magic in the air
Head to toe so player
Uh, look out!
(Wooh)
Everywhere I go they be like
Ooh, so player ooh
Everywhere I go they be like
Ooh, so player ooh
Everywhere I go they be like
Ooh, so player ooh
Now, now, now
Watch me break it down like (Uh)
24 karat, 24 karat magic
What’s that sound?
24 karat, 24 karat magic
Come on now
24 karat, 24 karat magic
Don’t fight the feeling
Invite the feeling
Just put your pinky rings up to the moon
Girls, what y’all trying to do?
24 karat magic in the air
Head to toe so player
Put your pinky rings up to the moon
Girls, what y’all trying to do? (Do)
24 karat magic in the air
Head to toe so player
(24 karat)
Uh, look out
(24 karat magic, magic, magic)
Transitional Statement- You Say This:
The message is pretty clear: dressed in the finest clothes, money in our pocket, girls surrounding us and turning us on… that must be the way to truly party!
It’s like magic!
So I have one question for you:
Is he right?
Is this the true way to happiness?
Don’t get me wrong. There are lots of things in life that are fun… for the moment. Jumping out of a plane without a parachute might actually be really fun… for about 12 minutes.
Stealing a car and running from the cops might be really exhilarating… for the moment.
Bruno’s song is proposing a recipe for a good time. If this was a commercial trying to get us to buy a product—happy living—the question we need to ask is: will we look back the next day, the next month, the next year and proclaim, “Bruno was right! I’ve never been so happy in my life!”
Divide into Small Groups:
Let’s go ahead and split up into our discussion groups, and then afterward we’ll come back together for a final word.
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Discussion Questions:
- AROUND THE CIRCLE: Before we dive in, everybody take a few minutes and talk about what you would consider one of the most fun things you’ve ever done?
- ASK A FEW: Do you think the pursuit of having a good time is OK? Why or why not?
- ASK A FEW: According to the song, what makes up a ‘good time’?
- ASK A FEW: How long does this “good time” last?
- ASK A FEW: Are there any consequences to these “good times?” What?
- ASK A FEW: Do you agree with the lust/greed formula for happiness? Why or why not?
- ASK A FEW: What do you think these lyrics mean in the context of the song?
- ASK A FEW: Do you think he is giving a serious shout out to Jesus? Why or why not?
- ASK A FEW: Do you ever equate good times with Jesus blessing you and hard times with Jesus not blessing you? Why or why not?
- ASK A FEW: Is it wrong to have the desire to be happy and fulfilled? Why or why not?
- ASK A FEW: What was Solomon’s conclusion?
- ASK A FEW: Why do you think he calls it all meaningless?
- ASK A FEW: If Solomon couldn’t find true contentment in everything our culture is saying can provide it, why do we continue to chase it?
- ASK A FEW: In what ways might a lifestyle of lust and greed ‘steal and kill and destroy’ people’s lives?
- ASK A FEW: What is appealing about the life that Jesus offers?
- ASK A FEW: What are ways we can live life to the full? (In other words… does fun require spending stacks of cash, getting drunk and having meaningless sex?)
- ASK A FEW: What is the difference between quick thrills and long term happiness?
- AROUND THE CIRCLE: If a party lifestyle could truly and consistently make us happy, then why is Hollywood so fun of depressed and dysfunctional people?
- OPTIONAL TANGENT:
Got to blame it on Jesus
Hashtag blessed
Read the following passage from the Bible:
Ecclesiastes 2:1-3; 10-11
I said to myself, “Come now, I will test you with pleasure to find out what is good.” But that also proved to be meaningless. 2 “Laughter,” I said, “is madness. And what does pleasure accomplish?” 3 I tried cheering myself with wine, and embracing folly—my mind still guiding me with wisdom. I wanted to see what was good for people to do under the heavens during the few days of their lives.
10 I denied myself nothing my eyes desired;
I refused my heart no pleasure.
My heart took delight in all my labor,
and this was the reward for all my toil.
11 Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done
and what I had toiled to achieve,
everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind;
nothing was gained under the sun.
(Youth Leader: explain to the students that the context of this passage is basically Solomon’s 24K Magic pursuit of happiness)
TRANSITION STATEMENT AFTER READING THE PASSAGE:
When Solomon wrote this passage, he had been living the 24K Magic lifestyle for years. Seriously. He had been indulging in more money, women and partying than Bruno Mars has ever dreamed of. And after all that… he looked back at all that partying and wrote what we just read.
Read the following passage from the Bible:
John 10:10
10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
Wrap Up:
Bruno Mars wrote a very popular party song that celebrates the things our culture pushes as what should make us happy. But after taking a closer peek at Bruno’s offer… I think many of us might have found that what he’s really pushing is a quick thrill… with lots of regrets to follow. We see this clearly from the wisdom Solomon offers us after he tried every possible worldly route to contentment… and found it to be meaningless.
I don’t know about you, but personally, I prefer the amazing offer on the table from Jesus- a life that is abundant and full in a relationship with Him.
Which will you choose?
Close in Prayer
Written by Lane Palmer and Jonathan McKee
Jonathan McKee
Jonathan McKee is the author of over twenty books including the brand new The Guy's Guide to FOUR BATTLES Every Young Man Must Face; The Teen’s Guide to Social Media & Mobile Devices; If I Had a Parenting Do Over; and the Amazon Best Seller - The Guy's Guide to God, Girls and the Phone in Your Pocket. He speaks to parents and leaders worldwide, all while providing free resources for youth workers on TheSource4YM.com. Jonathan, his wife Lori, and their three kids live in California.
Manuel
November 14, 2016 at 12:00 amWell explained just what I was looking for. God bless you