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Tuesday, May 25, 2010

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Featured: Using The Blind Side to Talk About Life-changing Decisions

Many of you have seen the Oscar-winning movie The Blind Side and probably even thought about using it as a discussion starter. Well… we just did all the work for you! Here’s a thought-provoking lesson from Dave Urbanski using a scene from The Blind Side to talk about making life-changing decisions.

The Blind Side The Blind Side
(Warner Brothers, 2009)

Main Point of Discussion:
It’s one thing to know you need to change your life’s direction; it’s quite another to do something about it.

The Movie Clip: “Turn around.”

The Blind Side is an acclaimed, crowd-pleasing movie with numerous clips that can provoke discussion. The movie is pretty much “all things to all people”; it’s a sports movie, a family movie, a tearjerker, a drama, a comedy, and there’s even some action and suspense. Sandra Bullock won a Best Actress Oscar for her portrayal of Leigh Anne Tuohy, the posh-but-tough-as-nails wife and mother who reaches out to an abandoned teenager, Michael Oher.

The clip we’re using for this particular discussion features Leigh Anne and her family driving in the middle of the nighttime rain. Soon they see “Big Mike” (Quinton Aaron) walking alone. What happens in the few minutes that follow radically alters the course of their lives.

Introducing the Clip:
Today I want to show you a clip from the movie The Blind Side. Many of you have already seen this movie, but for those who haven’t, it begins with Leigh Anne Tuohy and her family driving in their BMW SUV in the middle of the nighttime rain. Then they see “Big Mike” walking alone. While Leigh Anne and her family notice and talk to Michael, they soon drive away-but Leigh Anne thinks better of that decision. What happens in the few minutes that follow radically alters the course of their lives. Let’s take a look at this scene.

Scene Script:

BEGIN CLIP AT 19 minutes and 59 seconds.

LEIGH ANNE: (spotting MICHAEL from her BMW window, who’s walking alone in the cold nighttime rain) What is he wearing? It’s freezing. What’s his name again?

SJ: (to LEIGH ANNE) Big Mike.

LEIGH ANNE: Where’s he going?

SEAN: (rolling down his window) Hey, Big Mike! Where you headin’?

MICHAEL: Gym…

SEAN: Go ahead. (SEAN lets MICHAEL cross in front of the Tuohys’ vehicle, and then they pull away; LEIGH ANNE is soon convicted.)

LEIGH ANNE: (to SEAN) Turn around. (SEAN turns car around and heads back for MICHAEL. LEIGH ANNE calls to him.) Big Mike! (to SEAN) Stop the car. (LEIGH ANNE hollers for MICHAEL again.) Big Mike! (LEIGH ANNE exits the car to talk to MICHAEL.) Hey, my name’s Leigh Anne Tuohy. My kids go to Wingate. You said you’re going to the gym? The school gym’s closed. Why were you going to the gym?

(No answer from a shivering MICHAEL.)

LEIGH ANNE: (firmer) Big Mike? Why were you going to the gym?

MICHAEL: Because…it’s warm.

LEIGH ANNE: Do you have any place to stay tonight? (MICHAEL weakly nods a “yes”) Don’t you dare lie to me. (MICHAEL gives in and shakes his head “no”)

SEAN: (to SJ, in the vehicle) I’ve seen that look many times. She’s about to get her way.

LEIGH ANNE: (to MICHAEL) Come on. Come on. SJ, make room. Get inside. Come on.

SEAN: Where we goin’?

LEIGH ANNE: Home. (Later, as the Tuoys pull into the driveway of their considerable estate, MICHAEL stares out the car window in awe.)

END CLIP AT 22 minutes and 13 seconds.

Transitional Statement:
In this scene Leigh Anne’s conscience hit her big-time when she realized she had everything in the world to give to Michael, an abandoned teen who had next to nothing. But knowing she needed to take action was only half the battle-she literally had to turn around, to change the direction she was headed, and embrace a whole new way of life.

Divide into Small Groups:
Let’s go ahead and split up into our discussion groups, and then afterward we’ll come back together for a final word…

Training Workshop: Bring Your Adult Leaders to Jonathan’s “CONNECT” Training Workshop in West Virginia on Saturday, June 5th

– A Note from Jonathan –

Jonathan Speaking This year I have already had several chances to do my CONNECT workshop around the U.S., equipping youth workers, both paid and volunteer, to initiate contact with today’s teenagers (click here for a glimpse of a video of this training). If you’re within driving distance of West Virginia, you may want to bring your adult leaders to the Saturday CONNECT workshop in June. Take a peek!

June 5, 2010 (Lumberport, WV)
“Connect” Saturday Workshop

What: This Saturday workshop equips youth workers, both paid and volunteer, to initiate contact with today’s teenagers. (MORE)

Where:

Lumberport Baptist Church
Main Street
Lumberport, WV 26386

When:

Saturday, June 5, 2010, 8 AM to 1:00 PM

Cost:

$10 per person
LUNCH INCLUDED

REGISTER: Email lbcyouth@rocketmail.com or call Tracy Shingleton or Kim Hurt at (304) 584 4758

LEARN MORE ABOUT BRINGING OUT JONATHAN
TO TRAIN YOUR LEADERS
OR DO A PARENTING WORKSHOP

Here’s a peek at my speaking/training schedule so far for the next 12 months:

Jonathan will be speaking or training
at the following locations:

Jonathan Speaking June 5, 2010 (Lumberport, WV)
CONNECT Training Workshop, Lumberport Baptist Church

June 13, 2010 (Rancho Cordova, CA)
Parent Workshop, Sun River Church Family Zone

July 4, 2010 (Rancho Cordova, CA)
Preach, Sun River Church

July 11-16, 2010 (Hordville, NE)
Covenant Cedars Bible Camp, Summer Camp

October 2-4, 2010 (San Diego, CA)
Training Workshops, Youth Specialties National Youth Workers Convention

January 10-11, 2011 (Boerne, TX)
Baptist General Convention of Texas, 2011 Ministers Retreat

February 4-6, 2011 (East Troy, WI)
Timberlee, WinterXtreme

February 12, 2011 (Antelope, CA)
Parent Workshop, Antelope Springs Church

March 27, 2011 (Lititz, PA)
Preach, Parent Workshop, Middle Creek Church

100% of the money that people pay Jonathan to speak and train goes straight to TheSource4YM.com and the free resources we provide helping youth workers across the globe!

“We have Jonathan do his training seminars at our National Youth Workers Convention every year and he always does a great job. Not only is Jonathan’s presentation dynamic, his information is extremely helpful to those in attendance. In fact, that’s why we publish his books.”

Tic Long, President Youth Specialties Events


“Jonathan is an incredible communicator. He has what it takes to get tough with this generation. He is funny, committed, challenging, and he speaks with an edge.”

Jim Burns, Ph.D.
President, Youth Builders


“Jonathan is a very talented speaker!.”

Ken Davis
Dynamic Communicator’s Workshop


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Jonathan McKee

Jonathan McKee is the author of over twenty books including the brand new The Guy's Guide to FOUR BATTLES Every Young Man Must Face; The Teen’s Guide to Social Media & Mobile Devices; If I Had a Parenting Do Over; and the Amazon Best Seller - The Guy's Guide to God, Girls and the Phone in Your Pocket. He speaks to parents and leaders worldwide, all while providing free resources for youth workers on TheSource4YM.com. Jonathan, his wife Lori, and their three kids live in California.

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