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Tuesday, February 27, 2007
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- Featured Article: Keeping Up With Youth Culture and the Language Kids Use
- Something You Can Use This Week: Battle of the Generations-from our totally revamped Games & Icebreakers page
- Reaching Out to the Unchurched Teenager Training: Looking for a training seminar for your volunteers? THE SOURCE is bringing this training to Eastern Pennsylvania and Detroit, Michigan.
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| Featured Article: Keeping Up With Youth Culture and the Language Kids Use |
new book What’s a Fo’ Sheezy?
KEEPING UP WITH YOUTH CULTURE
…and the Language Kids Use
I’ll never forget sitting next to a youth pastor at a camp when one of his student leaders mounted the platform to give his testimony…wearing a T-shirt with the number 420 on the front. As the kid started sharing his story, I leaned over to the youth pastor and sarcastically whispered, “Nice T-shirt.”
The youth pastor looked at me, confused, and replied, “What do you mean?”
He had no idea. Don’t feel alone if you don’t, either.
It’s increasingly difficult to keep up with the ever-changing youth culture and the slanguage kids use. (The American Heritage Dictionary defines slanguage as “language marked by the use of slang.”) Regardless of how silly it is, regardless of how much you like or don’t like it…kids still use it. Sometimes they use it as a secret code of sorts to stay under adult radar screens. Others just use slanguage because it’s catchy, and every cable- TV show they watch uses the terms.
420 was one of those obscure, “under the radar” terms for a while. It’s basically defined as the time to smoke pot, but it’s come to mean everything from the act of smoking to the stuff that’s smoked. But because more than 90 percent of people DON’T know what 420 means, it’s become a code people use to identify and talk with each other without outsiders knowing.
It’s likely that many of us aren’t excited about learning slang terms for drug use or sexual activity. But let’s face it: We WOULD want to know if the kid standing in front of our youth group is “preaching” smoking pot. It’s in these moments that we probably wish we’d at least kept our thumbs on the pulse of youth culture.
I’ll never forget when I first heard the word tight. It was more than a decade ago. A student was talking about a teacher and said, “He’s tight.” Two decades ago that would’ve meant the teacher was way too strict or unfair. But a decade ago it was a good thing. This teacher was very good-“tight,” in fact. Five years ago this teacher would’ve been “off the hook” and then more recently “pimpin'” or “bangin’.”
It’s hard to keep up! Where are these words coming from? One source is the variety of English known as African American Vernacular English (AAVE), Black English, or Ebonics. This dialect has greatly influenced teenage vocabulary, crossing racial and socioeconomic lines to the point where speech stereotypes have now become blurry in many communities. White-dominated schools are full of students passing each other in the hallway, uttering phrases such as “What’s crackin’, my nephew?” And the reply: “Not much, dawg-we ’bout to roll out to lunch!”
The media has been one of the greatest influences of slanguage over the last 20 years, pushing it into the mainstream through media such as MTV. And this isn’t just affecting students who listen to gangsta rap and hip-hop. MTV crosses racial and socioeconomic lines, reaching the inner city and the ?burbs, influencing Caucasians, Hispanics, African Americans, Asians (and every other color), and affecting jocks, gangstas, skaters, and the kids who sit alone at lunch. Whether it’s Justin Timberlake, Eminem, Ludacris, the Black Eyed Peas, or even the Pussycat Dolls, popular artists of all colors and genres are influencing all of our students with new terms every day-and the lingo is pretty much the same thing.
While some of these speech influences are innocent, the product MTV sends us begs for an “R” rating. Many of the terms are about sex, drugs, cruising, and partying as well as derogatory titles for each gender.
And slanguage isn’t affecting students only-it’s also influencing language used by adults. Monday Night Football commentary is filled with “shout outs” to relatives and friends at home. (A “shout out” is a simple “hello” or recognition of important others.) On September 11, 2001, United flight 93 victim Todd Beamer spoke his now-famous departing words, “Let’s roll”-also the title of his wife’s best-selling book. And while let’s roll, a slanguage term meaning “Let’s go!” isn’t in the dictionary on your shelf, it’s used daily by a growingnumber of teenagers and adults.
In fact, the meanings of words adults use every day are changing, too. Many people don’t believe it, but check it out for yourself: Is the following sentence grammatically correct? “Do not disrespect your mom.”
Pretty straightforward. Nothing wrong here, correct? The word disrespect is used as a verb.
But the dictionary on your shelf-unless it’s very new-probably doesn’t list disrespect as a verb. Most dictionaries list disrespect as a noun and disrespectful as an adjective. But nowadays the word disrespect is commonly used as a verb because of the growing use of the term dis, which is slang for “to show disrespect.” So it’s not uncommon to hear someone say, “Don’t you disrespect me!”
Our language is changing as youth culture is changing. And at the top of the pyramid, before it trickles down into everyday language, slanguage is changing, too. Whether or not we like slanguage, it’s beneficial to know the vocabulary of the generation we’re trying to reach.
Our hope is that this book not only will educate you about some of the most popular, current terms of this generation but also will provide springboards for discussion.
GET TEENAGERS TALKING,
LAUGHING, DEBATING, AND THINKING
What’s a Fo’ Sheezy?
More Than 300 Questions from Slanguage to Get Teenagers Talking
Youth Specialties’ brand new book by Jonathan McKee & Fred Lynch
Larry Acosta says it well:
- “In a time where so few are willing to ?keep up’ with
the ever-changing landscape of youth culture, Fred and
Jonathan help us decipher many of the words, terms,
slogans, and crazy sayings that our youth use today.
“What’s a Fo’ Sheezy?” is a creative book that will get
teenagers and you communicating.”
-Larry Acosta, president, Urban Youth Workers Institute
(www.uywi.org)
| Something You Can Use This Week: Battle of the Generations-from our totally revamped Games & Icebreakers Page |
has been totally revamped.
THE SOURCE game-masters David and Sonja have been working overtime revamping our game page. They have added a ton of new games (which are highlighted on the top of each individual games page) and even added a few new selections for the custom search. Thanks to our game masters, our list is a little more polished than it was before.
Check out this great new UP FRONT GAME from THE SOURCE game-masters!
Battle of the Generations
Note: This game works best with some sort of screen projection (a video projector is best, but even overhead projectors could work). If you don’t have access to a projector, no worries; you’ll just have to use questions without visuals.
This is a great Up Front Game for parents or adult leaders to square off against students. We did it with our adult leaders. A group of 4 students and 4 adult leaders (8 total) were chosen at the opening of our event. They came up on stage and were read the rules. Adult leader “A” would play against Student “A.” Adult leader “B” would square off against Student “B” and so on.
The game leader then reads a question to “Adult Leader A” that has to do with today’s generation. The adult leader must get it right, or risk a pie in the face. Let’s say the adult leader gets it right, the game leader would then read a question to “Student A” about the adult leader’s generation (usually the 70’s). The student must get it right or risk a pie in the face.
Now, let’s say that the adult leader gets the question wrong. The student squaring off against him MUST know the right answer to be able to pie the adult leader in the face. The same is true for the student. (This kind of operates like volleyball… you have to be in control to score.)
Here’s an example of how the game is played: One question the game leader asked “Student A” was, “What kind of jacket is pictured here?” (On the screen we had the ever-so-sought-after Member’s Only brand name jacket pictured.) “Student A” missed the question and was at risk of being pied in the face. However, “Adult Leader A” also missed the question, so nothing happened.
For the exact same competitors, the tables were turned. The game leader asked “Adult Leader A”, “Exactly which game console is pictured here?” (On the screen we had a Nintendo DS Lite pictured.) The adult leader did NOT know the answer, but the student did! The student gets to pie the adult leader, BUT NOT YET!!!
This process repeats for the other three competitors. A suggestion: save all of the pies until the end. If both “Adult Leader A” and “Student A” are supposed to get pied, you don’t want one of them to have to make a bathroom run in the middle of your game to get cleaned up enough to pie someone else in the face. Save all of the consequences for the end.
If you decide to develop your own questions, it’s fun to get some kids to help you develop them. Just make sure that it’s no one that will be involved playing the game.
Here are some suggestions for VISUAL QUESTIONS for each generation:
- Questions STUDENTS ASK ADULTS
- Specifically, which game console is pictured here? (Nintendo DS Lite)
- What is the name of this band? (Black Eyed Peas)
- What is the name of this comedian? (Borat)
- In IM or text messaging, BRB, PIR, and TTYL are each short for something. What? (Be Right Back, Parent in Room, and Talk To You Later… see www.noslang.com for more examples)
- Who is this celebrity? (Goldie Hawn)
- What was the name of this TV show starring Tom Selleck? (Magnum PI)
- What is the name of this “hunk” from the early 80’s? (Scott Baio)
- What brand name jacket is pictured here? (Member’s Only)
Questions ADULTS ASK STUDENTS
- Questions STUDENTS ASK ADULTS
- What is the name of the squirrel on Sponge Bob Square Pants (Sandy)
- What is Hilary Duff’s sister’s name? (Haylie)
- Who rapped with Usher in his old song Yeah! (Ludacris and Lil’ Jon)
- In the movie Napoleon Dynamite, where does the Nurse keep her Chapsticks? (in her top drawer)
- What fast food company ran the commercial with the old lady yelling WHERE’S THE BEEF? (Wendy’s)
- According to the song by Tommy Tutone in 1982, what is Jenny’s phone # (867-5309)
- Ginger, Professor, and MaryAnn all could be found on…? (Gilligan’s Island)
- What 80’s fashion style am I describing? “Business in the front, party in the back.” (the Mullet)
Questions ADULTS ASK STUDENTS
1. You might want to design your questions for the age group of the adults that will be playing. The above questions are geared toward someone born in the 1960’s or 1970’s.
2. I don’t know why, but in most crowds you’ll have a few people that love to yell out the answers. Warn the crowd not to do it. I usually set the stage for a kid to be embarrassed if he decides to yell out something. I might do this by saying, “Now every time we play this game, we have people that try to prove their intelligence by yelling out answers. Guess what? The questions are easy! So you aren’t proving anything by yelling it out. So don’t!” Then let the crowd know that if they yell out the answers, they will lose points.
| Reaching Out to the Unchurched Teenager Training: Looking for a training seminar for your volunteers? THE SOURCE is bringing this training to Eastern Pennsylvania and Detroit, Michigan. |
In addition to all the free resources on our website, we like to provide you with recommendations of some budget items, like speakers, that are worth booking for your upcoming events.
Eastern, PA
March 17th, Jonathan is doing a Saturday workshop (9AM to 3PM) for youth workers within driving distance of Eastern, PA. If you’re a youth worker, paid or a volunteer, this is for you!
Here’s the details for this Pennsylvania training:
WHEN:
- Saturday March 17, 2007, 9 AM to 3 PM
- Rainbow’s End Youth Services
105 Fairview Street
Mount Joy, PA 17552
- Two choices:
- $20 (includes lunch)
- Only $10 (lunch Included) for paid pre-registration if paid on or before March 9, 2007
- Contact Dean Peters @ 717-653-9511
Or email dpeters@reys.org
Or register online at www.reys.org
Detroit, MI
April 28th, Jonathan is doing a Saturday workshop (9AM to 3PM) for youth workers within driving distance of Detroit, MI. If you’re a youth worker, paid or a volunteer, this is for you!
Here’s the details for this Michigan training:
WHEN:
- Saturday, April 28, 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.
- Ward Church
40000 six mile
Northville, mi 48168
www.WardChurch.org
- Two choices:
- $15 at the door
- $10 early bird rate if registered by April 21st
- Contact Jared Dilley (248) 374-5925
Or email jared.dilley@wardchurch.org
CLICK HERE FOR INFORMATION ON HOW TO
BRING THIS TRAINING TO YOUR AREA
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Jonathan McKee
Jonathan McKee is the author of over twenty books including the brand new The Guy's Guide to FOUR BATTLES Every Young Man Must Face; The Teen’s Guide to Social Media & Mobile Devices; If I Had a Parenting Do Over; and the Amazon Best Seller - The Guy's Guide to God, Girls and the Phone in Your Pocket. He speaks to parents and leaders worldwide, all while providing free resources for youth workers on TheSource4YM.com. Jonathan, his wife Lori, and their three kids live in California.