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eZine 03.03.2009

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Tuesday, March 3, 2009

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Featured: In the Midst of Trials… You Found Me: Using THE FRAY’s Hit Song to Kickstart Biblical Discussion about Finding God in the Midst of Tragedies

The Fray Main Point of Discussion: Where can we find God in the midst of trials and tragedies?

The Fray’s song ?You Found Me’ is quickly climbing the charts and is becoming the talk of the youth culture. Here’s a little background and some quotes from Isaac (of The Fray) about the song:


The starting point for this song was back in 2006 when frontman Isaac Slade found himself pondering why bad things happen to good people after witnessing various crises among people close to the singer. The lyrics for this tune came from these deliberations. Slade said on The Fray’s website that this was a tough song for him to write. He explained: “It’s about the disappointment, the heart ache, the let down that comes with life. Sometimes you’re let down, sometimes you’re the one who lets someone else down. It gets hard to know who you can trust, who you can count on. This song came out of a tough time, and I’m still right in the thick of it. There’s some difficult circumstances my family and friends have been going through over the past year or so and can be overwhelming. It wears on me. It demands so much of my faith to keep believing, keep hoping in the unseen. Sometimes the tunnel has a light at the end, but usually they just look black as night. This song is about that feeling, and the hope that I still have, buried deep in my chest.”

This song was inspired by a dream. Isaac Slade told The Sun, February 6,2009: “I dreamt I ran into God on a street corner. He looked like Bruce Springsteen and he was smoking a cigarette. I had it out with him and asked ‘Where were you when all this bad stuff was happening to these very undeserving, good people?'” Slade, whose Christian faith is important to him added: “There were tough times. I was questioning my faith, angry at things that had happened in my life and the lives of my friends. A friend had suffered a miscarriage, I had lost my grandfather. I was angry and the song felt angry and hopeless too. I imagined what I’d say to God, in the face of all the crap my friends have gone through in the last couple of years.”
(www.songfacts.com)

Note to Youth Leaders: The band admits that the video goes a different direction than the lyrics… so we’re going to talk about just the song.

At THE SOURCE FOR YOUTH MINISTRY we like to use pop culture references to start Biblical conversation (just like the Apostle Paul used culture to start conversations about Jesus in Acts 17). This song might be a good discussion starter in some circles. If you want, you can print out the lyrics (below) and give each student a copy to refer to.

Introducing the Song:
Many of you might have already seen the relatively new song from The Fray, “You Found Me.” I’m going to play the song, and then I want to hear from you…

Four Minutes Video: Jonathan and Walt Mueller Tour a Bookstore and Recommend Some Good Youth Culture Reading

You’ve seen our FOUR MINUTE VIDEOS. They’re fun, they’re informative… and they’re only “Four Minutes!”

Right now our web site is featuring a brand new “Four Minutes” with Walt Mueller and Jonathan touring a bookstore and recommending some good “youth culture” reading. Check it out!

Four Minute Videos

BOOKS WALT AND JONATHAN
RECOMMEND IN THIS VIDEO

  1. The Outrageous Idea of Academic Faithfulness: A Guide for Students
    by Donald Opitz and Derek Melleby
  2. Creation Regained: Biblical Basics for a Reformational Worldview
    by Albert Wolters and Michael W. Goheen
  3. Dare 2 Share: A Field Guide to Sharing Your Faith
    by Stier, Greg
  4. The Culturally Savvy Christian: A Manifesto for Deepening Faith and Enriching Popular Culture in an Age of Christianity-Lite
    by Dick Staub
  5. Youth Culture 101
    by Mueller, Walt
  6. Opie Doesn’t Live Here Anymore: Where Faith, Family, and Culture Collide
    by Mueller, Walt
  7. Culture Making: Recovering Our Creative Calling
    by Crouch, Andy
  8. They Like Jesus But Not the Church: Insights from Emerging Generations
    by Kimball, Dan

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New Podcast: Jonathan and Brandon Interview Walt Mueller- Walt Shares the “7 Sins of Engaging Youth Culture”

Jonathan and Brandon interview youth culture guru Walt Mueller in this brand new podcast

Episode #23 (2/21/2009)

Podcast Episode #23

In this episode, Jonathan and Brandon chat with youth culture guru Walt Mueller as he shares “The 7 Sins of Engaging Youth Culture.” Walt is the president of The Center for Parent Youth Understanding (cpyu.org) and is one of the most trusted voices in youth culture today. This podcast not only provides the pulse of today’s teenagers, it also points out the many ways youth workers can interact with kids by understanding youth culture.

Listen to it now for free on iTunes! (CLICK HERE) Or, if you don’t have iTunes already… jump on Apple’s web page for a free download, then click on our podcast page.

JUST A SNIPPET FROM THIS PODCAST…

Walt: We need to see ourselves as cross cultural missionaries. So, a BIG SIN is when youth workers fail to see themselves as cross cultural missionaries. We don’t just have to know the Word, we have to know the world, changing kids and their changing world. So, youth workers have to be about the business of knowing what those kids are swimming in everyday.

Jonathan: It’s funny, cause if someone goes to China, of course they would engage in six months of study. But youth work, they’re like, “Hey, I live here. I don’t need to study.”

Walt: Yeah. Actually, if you go to China it’s going to be a lot more than six months, language and culture. And the problem is, if we don’t see it as cross cultural missions work, we can have a calling, we can have a great knowledge of the message we’re communicating, but if we don’t know our audience, we can communicate that message clearly to us, but they never hear it. It falls on deaf ears because they don’t have categories for it, they don’t understand it, or we don’t bring the truths of God’s Word and that wonderful life-giving message, to bear on the realities that exist.

I remember Francis Schaeffer said, “If we don’t understand our calling as cross cultural missionaries, not just in youth ministry, but people in general, we are only beating the air” when we go to speak to truth. You know, we’re out there throwing stuff out, but nobody can hear. We speak to a world that no longer exists.

Jonathan: Let me be the Devil’s advocate, or as my wife says, “a pain in the butt.” What about the person that comes up and says, “We don’t need to know all this crud that’s out there in the world, all we need to know is the Word of God and if we know that…” and then some people will actually elaborate enough to even share the illustration of the Secret Service, how, when it comes to counterfeiting, they only need to study the US currency, and if they know that US currency, then they’re able to spot that counterfeit. They don’t study the hundreds of counterfeits out there; they only know the real thing, and so that way, they can spot a counterfeit. And then they’ll say, “In the same way, we just need to know the Bible and then when we go out there that’s all we need.”

Does that conflict with what you’re saying?

Walt: I remember the first time that I heard that?and I’ve heard it probably like you have, cause you talk about culture?dozens and dozens of times, if not hundreds. And it drives me nuts because it really is a horrible analogy, because it does break down for them. Because what the Secret Service is looking for is the counterfeit.

Jonathan: Yeah.

Walt: And they have to know the truth to be able to look at the counterfeit to know that it’s not real.

Jonathan: Sure.

Walt: But they have to look at the counterfeit. And part of what Secret Service people will do, is like at my local Kmart, they’ll sometimes swipe a bill with some sort of a magic marker, and hold it up to the light. And I don’t know what they’re doing there, but they’re looking at it, and they’re comparing, and they’re working to understand. Those Kmart clerks were taught what the truth is and what lies are. Isn’t that what we want to do with our kids? You know, I want to be able to talk to my own four kids and say, “Here’s the truth, here are the lies.” To expose the lies, I need to know the truth. But I need to know the lies, too.

Jonathan: Yeah, but wouldn’t they argue, “Well you only need to know the truth because then you’ll be able to recognize the lies.”

Walt: Well, in a way, that’s true, but you’re still looking at the lie.

Jonathan: Sure, and when they come, you have to say “Oh look, here’s a common lie we’re seeing.”

Walt: Exactly. And part of my responsibility as a dad and someone in youth ministry, and everyone who’s listening who is in youth ministry, is to say to kids, “Here’s the truth, and here’s how it shines on the lies of your world.”

Episode Highlights:

  • Learn how to develop a biblical theology of faith and culture
  • Learn why Brandon no longer wears his nose ring
  • Hear why Walt calls youth culture “the soup kids are swimming in today”
  • Take an in-depth look at problems with self-esteem and depression, and their dangerous side effects
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New “Search” Feature: It’s About Time! www.TheSource4YM.com Now Has a SEARCH!

Welcome to the Google generation!

We now have a search engine, helping you find what you need even quicker! Just look at the top right hand corner of our web site on any page!

New Search Feature

For years our site has bypassed providing a search. Sound silly? Believe it or not, there was a method to our madness.

Many people get led astray by searches. I’ve seen it happen frequently. Someone pops on our website searches for the word “crowdbreakers” and the search will come up empty. They’ll think, “Oh, there are no crowdbreakers here!” and leave. It’s a shame. We have tons of “crowdbreakers”… we just call them games and icebreakers.

Similarly, people will type in the words “Bible lessons.” We have a ton… but we rarely use the word “Bible lessons.” We might use “talks” or “discussions” instead. If you look on our MOVIE CLIP DISCUSSIONS, or MUSIC DISCUSSIONS, or our CURRICULUM page (all from the FREE RESOURCES & IDEAS drop down menu on the top of the page) you will find a gold mine of studies and discussions that really dig into God’s Word, provide small group questions, etc.

If people really want a game, they should access our game page from the FREE RESOURCES & IDEAS dropdown menu. We even offer a custom game search on that page that is amazing. If people want “Bible Lessons” using movie clips as a jumpstarter, they should acces our MOVIE CLIP DISCUSSIONS page from the FREE RESOURCES & IDEAS drop down menu. That provides a ton of these “lessons” divided by topic.

But this is the “Google” generation. People want a search bar. I don’t blame them. Sometimes we are searching for a narrow topic. It would be handy to search our entire site for anything about “integrity.”

Our web guy, Anthony, has been working hard on this new SEARCH feature for months now. We’ve tried to work out the bugs and fine tuning so it will help you find what you’re looking for.

Enjoy!


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Jonathan McKee

Jonathan McKee is the author of over twenty books including the brand new The Guy's Guide to FOUR BATTLES Every Young Man Must Face; The Teen’s Guide to Social Media & Mobile Devices; If I Had a Parenting Do Over; and the Amazon Best Seller - The Guy's Guide to God, Girls and the Phone in Your Pocket. He speaks to parents and leaders worldwide, all while providing free resources for youth workers on TheSource4YM.com. Jonathan, his wife Lori, and their three kids live in California.

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